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Are You Aligned to Your Goals — or Reacting to Noise?

Are You Aligned to Your Goals — or Reacting to Noise?

by Jessica Cabeen | Apr 16, 2026 | Permission to Rest, Principal in Balance, Slow Leadership

You set the goals.The strategic plan is clear.The priorities are named.The outcomes are defined. And yet… Your days don’t feel aligned.They feel reactive. Emails.Parent concerns.Staff tensions.New initiatives.District asks.Community pressure. By 3:42 p.m., you’ve been...
Is Your Speed Quietly Eroding Your Presence?

Is Your Speed Quietly Eroding Your Presence?

by Jessica Cabeen | Apr 3, 2026 | Slow Leadership

You’re visible. You walk the halls.You attend the meetings.You respond to the messages.You show up. From the outside, you are present. But here’s the harder question: Is your speed quietly eroding your presence? Because presence isn’t about proximity. It’s about...
When Your Team Brings You Every Problem: Leadership Strength or a Capacity Warning?

When Your Team Brings You Every Problem: Leadership Strength or a Capacity Warning?

by Jessica Cabeen | Mar 28, 2026 | Slow Leadership

It feels good to be needed. When people come to you for answers…When decisions funnel through you…When problems land on your desk first… It can feel like proof. Proof that you’re capable.Proof that you’re trusted.Proof that you’re leading well. But here’s the...
Are You Proud of Your Pace — or Trapped by It?

Are You Proud of Your Pace — or Trapped by It?

by Jessica Cabeen | Mar 21, 2026 | Slow Leadership

There’s a certain pride in being fast. Fast to respond.Fast to decide.Fast to fix.Fast to move. In school leadership, speed can feel like strength. You’re the one who keeps things moving.You’re the one who handles it.You’re the one who doesn’t drop the ball. But...
What If the Principal You’re Trying to Be Isn’t Sustainable?

What If the Principal You’re Trying to Be Isn’t Sustainable?

by Jessica Cabeen | Mar 14, 2026 | Slow Leadership

Recently, I received a thoughtful message from a school leader navigating a tension many principals quietly carry. I’m in my eighth year as a principal and trying to build sustainability. I find myself feeling guilty when I’m not at every basketball game, tennis...
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